mirror

Release time:2020-02-09Number of visitors:1362

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Today, when I was waiting for her in the lobby of Friends Hotel, two children were throwing stones into the pool all the time. After the cleaning aunt said a few words, the two dads came on stage.

Dad a: "don't play. My aunt will scold you again."

Dad B: "you throw such a mess, Auntie will be very hard to do sanitation oh."

On the surface, both fathers are trying to prevent their children from throwing stones. One is trying to transfer contradictions to make potential threats, while the other makes the children understand that they respect the fruits of other people's labor and nurture empathy. Their education today may affect their children's life.

All parents want their children to grow up. Parents are the mirror of children, their words and deeds affect the growth of children, what parents are like, children will learn what. Without a problem parent, there will be no problem child. To solve the problem of the child, we must solve the problem on the root. Children are just a flower on the tree of family and society. It brings out the advantages of the family, and at the same time, it also brings out the problems of the whole family. If there is something wrong with a flower on a tree, we usually need to go deep into the root of the tree for treatment, not just the flower itself. Similarly, if a child has a problem, then the root cause is his family.


Today, although children spend most of the day on campus, their character, good habits, strong willpower and happiness come from simple families. Therefore, family education is the key to good conduct of children. There must be a big difference between the children who grow up at mahjong tables and in front of TV sets and those who love reading books. That is to say, when parents watching TV and playing mobile phones ask their children to read books seriously, they often receive the children's rebellion.

How can you ask your child to do something you can't do yourself! When you can't figure out why your child has so many bad problems, review yourself first, and you may find the root of the problem!

A child's good conduct comes from his parents; his good habits come from his parents; his strong will comes from his parents; his long-term happiness comes from his parents. Please make this mirror for your children.

(by Yan Xiaohong, training center)